Defining the word 'Love' would be a very hard thing to do. It's like teaching 'how sweet the sweet is'. Once you in it you'll understand it. But to be in it, all should answer the hardest question they'll ever come across in life. "Do you love me?"...
When one asks about undefined human feeling, you become so confused and sometimes you take wrong decisions. That is simply because you don't have any clue what love is.
Some say I've been in love once. But was that actually love? If that's actual love, then how come it become history? Some say the other party didn't respond, or the other party didn't love in return. Take a break, do you need two parties to love? To me loving and flying are different verbs. To fly you need two wings, to love you don't need wings at all. If you love someone, does he/she should always love in return? Love is not always a mutual feeling. So it can be one sided. Love can never be history. If you ever loved someone, when you see him/her ever again in your life, you will always feel something which you cannot explain. You might not be his/her partner, But he/she will always be your lover, coz love is eternal.
Moreover, can't people love more than one person at the same time. If that's the case, a person who lost loved ones will never be able to love again. Is that fair?
You can see a person having sex with a group sometimes and might scream that's BAD. You find it either in pornography or in prostitution. But why should one compare love with pornography or prostitution. Is it the same? NO WAY!!! If you are committed to someone, it's your duty to be faithful. But being faithful doesn't mean that you should only love one person. To me, one can love many people, but that is as long as you don't capitalize on your feelings other than to your partner. If you do so, that's being unfaithful. If your unfaithful, you hurt feelings of your partner, so that means you don't love him/her.
I don't know what love is. But this is what I felt. More to write, will write later, coz I got lectures to attend.
Thanks for reading.
Best Regards.
Pradeepa.
This is a complicated topic. I dont think "love" is an eternal thing. It is bound to change at some point. It is almost like a contract. "I'll love you, in return you love me."
ReplyDeleteEven if we fail one time, we can try again. It is not the end of the world;)
Mudi
(Keep on writing)
But if you love someone and lost that love, one party will end the contract, but that doesn't mean that you stopped loving her/him. So how can you start to love again to different subject.
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